Five months after my ex boarded a plane out of my life, I boarded my own plane.

Hi, I'm Lina

Just 8 days before my 40th birthday my husband of 5 years and partner of 10 years boarded a plane out of my life. 

It was heart-wrenching but it set me on a path of self-discovery that has led me to a new life full of new friends, adventure and experiences.

It hasn't been easy. It wasn't what I thought I wanted.

It was also the best thing for me.


W hat did I believe? W ho was being woken up inside of me?


As I walked along my healing journey, I would find books, podcasts and people that resonated with how I wanted to feel.   I dove deep into material about grief, reclaiming your power, and self-acceptance. It became my lifeline.


5 months after my break-up and with shaky knees, I put everything I owned into storage and decided to do something just for me.

With the support of my family and friends I left home and went to Colombia.

It was terrifying.  And it was a taste of true freedom. 

This decision to push outside my comfort zone forced me to see how capable I really am. It rebuilt my crumbling self-confidence and gave me a new inspiration. 


What did I believe? Who was being woken up inside of me?

I knew one thing for sure. I wanted to be a person who forgave easily and chose to live a life of happiness.


I needed to let go of anger, and that had to start with forgiving myself. 

It wasn’t easy.  And it didn’t happen overnight. 


In forgiving myself, I unlocked the door to the path I needed to follow as I stepped into my new life. It truly was magic. 

As I started to share my story, I was overwhelmed by the responses I received.  It was then I knew I wanted to share this magic with other women as they embarked on their own journey of change.


I knew I wanted to share this magic with other women as they embarked on their own journey of change.


It started with an in-person retreat in Colombia, June 2019, with more retreats to follow (our next one is happening in October). 


But I also know others are wanting to connect, to bring in adventure and courage and connection into their life now - without needing to travel. And they are ready to do the work.  Now.

Which is why I’m so excited about the launch of Rediscov(her) - our online monthly group coaching experience for women looking to transform their lives.

The pain of my breakup was also my awakening; it slapped me in the face and told me to wake up and pay attention to life.

Which is what I did. And when I leaned in to listen and allowed myself to really feel (without judgement), my world shifted, and my journey began.


I look forward to supporting you on your journey, in whatever way I can - through my free workshop, online membership, one on one coaching or in-person retreats. 

In community,

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